FREEDOM by recognizing the problem and confessing
Pornography is everywhere and it can start innocently or even by accident. However, once it becomes part of our lives, it sinks deeper and deeper into the dark places of our soul. In the end, pornography objectifies sex and makes it small and meaningless. It poisons relationships and how we view and treat others.
Based on hundreds of conversations with men seeking to get out of the trap of porn, my guess is you are not here to find out whether porn is a problem. You are here to get help to get rid of the problem. Once we acknowledge the problem, we must see it for what it is and admit our sins. But admitting our sins is the first step and not the last.
Repentance is an often-misunderstood concept. For many, repentance means admitting sin and saying we are sorry. However, there is much more to it than that. In Greek, the word means to turn away from sin. However, the Bible actually goes much deeper and talks about a change of mind that results in a change of action.
Changing our actions means no longer pretending we can exercise more self-control and manage the temptations. It means we don’t believe the lies that we can handle this or it will go away when we get married. Now is the time to stop kidding yourself that you will pray more, read the Bible more, or go to church more to win this battle. Repent from your sin and keep reading to learn how to win the battle and become free.
In fact, the reason that this growing cancer has started to surround the heart of many “proclaimed” Christians is because they have denied vulnerability in covenant and put on a false authenticity to make them feel better. This comes from a man who has dealt with this battle and still has to make the choice to grab the beard of such beast a slay it. When we come to grips of such weakness God gives us in covenant his word.
9″ If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9 KJV
9″ And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly, therefore, will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” 2 Corinthians 19:9
Let us be reminded that God has not taken His covenant away because of weakness, No. The most reasonable understanding of falling out of covenant is because we allow ourselves to believe we no longer need God in this area of our life. Meaning simply you begin to cover ourselves again away from authenticity into falsehood.
Galatians 5:1 KJV 1″ Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.”